Tao of Cao

Proper Ventilation

Today’s picture has to do with the thing I pulled today which is:

“288. We can vent to each other as much as we need to.”

This is so true. It’s very comforting to know that you have some one that you can just “let your hair down” with, someone you can just vent and they just listen. One thing I’ve learned and it doesn’t stick a lot is that a lot of people these days really don’t keep it real. They see something that may bother them and they gripe about it to everyone else unless it’s the source. Renee and I are big on truthfulness, realness, accountability, and fairness. We care about people and sometimes it seems too much sometimes.

Often times people take my tone the wrong way when I’m being quite factual and no side has been taken but the “sound of my voice” can be taken wrong. Instead of someone asking they assume and that irks the crap out of me. I’ll say not many people do this but man the ones that do really get to me then it comes down to 1)Do I change or 2)Stay me. Renee and other friends said to stay who I am and stay true because that’s who I am so I shall, I shall indeed. Love you guys and just to say I’m very thankful for having Renee to whom I can vent to freely

–Peesh

July 21, 2009 - Posted by J | 365 Things, Reflections